Delores Flaim

Delores Josephine Flaim (Verdillo)

Saturday, August 4th, 1934 - Saturday, July 18th, 2020
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Delores J. Flaim

After living a full and blessed life, Delores Josephine Flaim (nee Verdillo), 85, of Vineland, NJ passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 18, 2020 at home surrounded by her loving family.

Mrs. Flaim was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY and moved to Vineland in 1953. For 25 years Delores was a Library Assistant for the Board of Education in Vineland retiring in 1997. She was a communicant of St. Padre Pio Parish in Vineland and was extremely devoted to her faith, having served as President of the Altar Rosary Society 1968-1970 and as a long time CCD Teacher. She served as past president of the PTA of Magnolia Road School, Winslow School and the Rossi School, all of Vinland. But above all, she cherished the time spent with family and will be deeply missed by those she leaves behind.

Delores was predeceased by her beloved husband, Jesse Flaim, in 2001 and her grandson, Jesse Moore, in 2017. She is survived by her children, Choro Odake (Junko), Paula M. Moore (David), Kathleen M. Scagnelli (John), Jessie Ann Flaim-Spetsas (Robert), and Kimberly Ann Kell (Michael); brother, Thomas Verdillo; grandchildren, Jeffrey Scagnelli, Jennifer Crescenzo, Ayaka Odake, Yuki Odake, Nicholas Spetsas, Lucas Spetsas, Ro Odake, Jaclyn Kell, Jacob Kell; great-grandchildren, Kelly, Jordon, Jesse, Rose Sora and Mei.

For the health and safety of her many dear friends, the viewing, mass and burial will be private. Memorial contributions in Mrs. Flaim’s name may be made to the Daughters of Our Lady of Mercy, 1001 Main Road, Newfield, NJ 08344. Funeral arrangements are by the Mount Laurel Home for Funerals.
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Laurie LaTorre

Posted at 01:34pm
Jessie Ann, Kim & Kathy -- I can't believe it. Her bags were packed and she was almost ready to go so many times but she was a fighter (and Dad wasn't ready for her quite yet. Watch out -- here she comes!) Through all of her struggles she never asked for pity or special treatment. She treasured her faith and tried to keep a smile on her face. I have so many great memories of conversations and adventures we had over the years. Now I can't help but think that the dynamic duo are back together roller skating in heaven. Whenever I hear thunder I will know it's her doing a double axle!

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